Hm~~~i think you are a newer and only“player” as well. As a Experienced person, i Just wanna let you know Trading is not as easy as most of Broker saying. Trading is a kind of Proffessional behavior. Now What you need to do is: Stop !!! and if you wanna continue to participate in trading, Then you also Please Stop your trading Right now. and try to spend some times concentrate on study and practice Trading.
As research and experienced, to be a Consistent winning Trader, you might need to pass through 1-2 years at least.
(and the truth in China is that: There is no ---or not much Real Proffessional Trader At all!!) so pls Keep your eyes Open and God Bless you guys.
From your Words above, i found that you are not a Pro-Trader in Gold/ Forex Market. you better tell what is your Entry level first, then based on the Technical ananlysis and also plus the Fundamental Analysis to make a decision. Not just follow others' without any knowledge.
if you do really don' t have a strong analysis/ trading skills, and you really still wanna trade, then suggest you to find a Trusted(Honest+Skillful) People to assist you to trade in the Commodity Market. otherwise i am sorry to say that one day you will lose all your “bet” Money.